I’m Quitting my job…

I decided I'm quitting my job. Ready or not, there will never be a perfect time. The time is now.

These guys are reason enough

I decided I’m quitting my job….

Ready or not, there will never be a perfect time.  The time is now.  That’s right, 6 years before I’m eligible for my pension, I’m leaving my career with the military behind.  After 14 years of full time service with with Royal Canadian Air Force, it’s time to put family first.   I still love the military but it just doesn’t fit in with my priorities at the moment.  Time with my family is number one for me right now.  Was I planning on leaving this year?  Was our family 100% ready to make the jump?  Nope.  Not at all.

Here’s the story

As you all know, my road to self reliance was getting our family closer and closer to financial independence so that one day I could “semi retire”.  My definition of semi retirement is to work doing the things you want to do, when you want to do them, not because you have to do them.  My main issue with my current career was our Geographical posting.  Being in the military, you don’t always decide where you will live.  After 4 years of trying to move closer to family, we were still a 17 hour drive away from what we consider home.  So even though we wanted to leave, financialy we couldn’t do it.  This led to a crushing feeling of imprisonment. It’s this lack of freedom that fuelled my purpose for seeking self reliance.

With all our debt repayment and investing over the last 4 years, we where on track to be able to “semi retire” in about 5 years.  But deep down I wasn’t happy with that.  All I could think about was how I was somewhere I didn’t want to be and how old my kids would be by then.  I wanted them to grow up with their grandparents, not show up at 8 and 10.  I just wasn’t happy.  All we could do was keep saving and investing.

Opportunity that changed everything

Longing to move back to our home town, I was always looking at the real estate listings back home.  Just something to do to kill time and daydream.  Well one day I recognized one of the homes that was two doors down from my parents house.  It was listed at 130k and actually looked half decent.  I sent the link to my wife and she actually liked it.  We talked about the house for a bit, then just kind of dropped it since we where not moving home.  But we both kept going back to it.  Kept talking about how nice it would be.  The location was perfect and the price was right…  But we weren’t ready to “semi retire” yet…  So what to do.

Just for fun, I calculated how much the mortgage and property tax would be if we bought it with a 20% downpayment…  only $520 a month…  That was only about a quarter of what we where putting aside for investments.  We could easily buy it and rent it out until we would be ready to move home.  Perfect, lets do it!

We bought the house while on vacation.  Did some renos to fix it up a bit.  Found someone to rent it out.    Fell in love with the place.  Really didn’t want to go back….

Number Crunching Time

Here’s where the decision gets easy.  As I started crunching the numbers…. it didn’t make sense for us to not take the plunge.

Here’s what I mean.

Current rent for military housing for 800 square feet with no basement  $976

Mortgage for our new 1100 square foot house with a basement including property taxes $520

Heat / Electric bill for our rental $300 a month on average

New house has a wood stove, equalized monthly bill is under $150, even in the winter.

Car insurance is $400 less a year back home, per vehicle.

New house has 1 acre of land, so more room for gardens.

It’s 10 minutes away from my family’s combined 100 acre wooded land.  So unlimited fire wood as long as we put the work into it.  This will be some good time spent with my dad.

So already, that’s $640 less a month in expenses.  That’s after tax money I wouldn’t have to make anymore if we moved.  Now think of all the other savings;

Traveling home twice a year costs us around $2000 for extra expenses.  Family fun would now be family BBQ’s, going to our camp, fun with the grandparents, pool parties or going to the beach… all low cost activities.

Thing is, we were also investing a crazy amount of money to try and build passive income to retire.  If we don’t need that passive income until later, we can cut back our investments and let compound interest do the rest.  We were investing almost 2k a month.  If we stop now and let it grow, we can actually fully stop working at 55.  So more money we don’t need to make.

Our current expenses including investments: $5500

Our expenses after the move: $2550

So like I’ve said before, Saving is Making.

The Big Decision

I could go on and on.  It’s just that in the end, this is what it comes down to.

Stay where I am and work insane hours to pay for my crappy housing in a place I don’t want to be.

Or move home, have less expenses, work less and spend more time with my family.

Less expenses, higher quality of life.  Easy choice to make.

I choose family.

A special thanks goes out to Mr.MoneyMustache for teaching me that you can live a better life on less.  If you don’t follow his blog, you need to get over there and read it like a book.  It’ll change your life.

The Plan

My wife is a Nurse and has been working part time since we’ve had children.  No change there.  Income will be slightly lower, but not by much.

She went to the hospital while we where on vacation, interviewed and got a job.  I’ve applied for a few jobs I could do part time, I’ll eventually find something.  Not too worried about it.  In the mean time I’ll concentrate on establishing my photography business and working on this blog.  Who knows, maybe I won’t even need a job.

All the money I’ve contributed into my government pension plan will be returned to me.  Half will go into a Locked In Retirement Account(LIRA) that I can control and invest until I turn 55.  The rest will be taxed and paid to me in cash.  We plan on topping up both our RRSP’s to minimize the tax hit.  With what’s left we will pay off our last debt, a Line of credit.  We’ll even have some leftover for a few renovations, a second vehicle(5k Corolla or Civic) and some investments.

The most important things we will gain from me quitting my job are Freedom and time. Time to be together as a family.

Wish us luck, cause we’re jumping in with both feet!

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11 comments for “I’m Quitting my job…

  1. Ginna
    August 23, 2015 at 5:06 pm

    Love it! Once again a very inspirational read. Keeps me motivated to do better and keep on track with debt reduction. Best of luck with all these plans, I’m sure it will be a fantastic new chapter!

  2. christy
    August 24, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    Proud of you Stephan! We could easily move elsewhere and make a tonne more money, but to me, being near our parents, and my kids with their grandparents while both can still enjoy each other, is key. I miss my brother & his family who are stuck out west on a posting, but hopefully soon they will get back. Big difference is, they love where they are and he loves what he does. You have to be happy. Money isn’t everything and you can’t base all life decisions on money. Good for you. Welcome back to NB! C

    • August 24, 2015 at 8:29 pm

      Thanks Christy! You nailed it right there “Money isn’t everything”.

  3. Smallstepstosustainability
    August 25, 2015 at 10:56 am

    Good Luck Mr. Self Reliance.
    I will keep following your journey!

  4. August 25, 2015 at 4:36 pm

    Really amazing!!! I want my military husband to retire too now… But moving back home to BC for him is more expensive and we like it here in Ottawa…I just like the idea of him not being on IR in Montreal or having to leave the 2 boys for long period of time. THANKS!!!

  5. Bob
    August 25, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    I did quit the military after 10 years also. As i did liked my job it was hard for the kids and for the wife as she need to start over a new job all the time.
    I could’nt be happier now, wife have a good job and so do I.
    Kids are happy to see the grand-parents and cousins.
    Good luck to your family

  6. Patrick
    August 25, 2015 at 11:48 pm

    There is nothing like home, however, we have to accept the home we once knew is forever gone and let this nostalgic moment go. In the military what’s nice is that you learn to adapt to your environment, make new friends, meet old acquaintances; it’s a very very small world…! I personally love the military lifestyle; lot’s of fitness, esprit de corp, go oversea, help in whatever catastrophe being natural or war; that’s my true purpose. The only organizations I could fathom to leave the military for is maybe RCMP. Loving the job, the life and paychecks are “showing up” in my bank account. Hope you find your path and good luck.

    • August 26, 2015 at 9:28 am

      Thank you Patrick. I do plan on joining the reserves as I don’t want to let go completely. Like I said, I still love the military, this decision was for family.
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  7. anni
    August 26, 2015 at 4:06 pm

    Congrats to you. My dh just did the same after 15 years to pursue his dream job. We are now in process of selling our home to move back to his home province and be near family again. He too is planning to join reserves to be part of military life as he also enjoyed most of it.

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